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Most daters on mainstream sites like OKCupid, Tinder and are white.

And the statistics say that most of those white men are looking to date someone who “share their racial background.” That means that, for the most part, black women’s profiles are passed by.

I’m not the typical “guy” who posts shirtless pictures of himself on dating sites or sends unsolicited pictures of his genitals to random women.

Perhaps my perspective here might help you when seeking your next mate on there (or not). I turned 19 and I was good with finding and meeting prospective dates on there.

You were defined by how cool your My Space layout was – animated GIFs, custom CSS and your favorite embedded You Tube video.

Very rarely was anything of substance shared there and more or less, everyone had the same opportunity to meet and connect with others.

The interactions were unique because of the anonymity given by using My Space.

As history has it, when people defected from My Space to Facebook, that online community became a dust town.

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Dating sites like Ok Cupid and Plenty of Fish (POF) became more popular.After the fall of My Space, I eventually created my Ok Cupid account.I really got into the quizzes that members could take. Ok Cupid prides themselves on the ability to match people based on responses to their surveys.They have a decent algorithm as I found myself conversing with smart, funny and attractive women regularly. There wasn’t much competition — that is, not many other guys were using it when I was.Eventually as more and more men (late majority) joined the site, I observed two problems.First, was the women became less trusting, less open and much more selective in who they even talk to.Second, the number of dudes in shirtless photos and less engaging profiles shot way up.Decent guys who really were more descriptive in their profiles were pushed out by the overtly masculine “bros” that dominated the site.As a result, they destroyed the network of decent matches.I don’t know of any other guys who actually took the surveys on there (like I did eagerly); I also know few women who took the surveys for more than a dozen questions.So, what I’m saying here is that dating online became tougher — the common denominator lowered and therefore interfered with the quality of matches I and others would receive.

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