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A tearful girl and two of her best friends sitting at a coffee shop: Girl #1: He cheated on me I cannot believe it! Girl #2: Well, I can’t believe you just figured that out. It may not seem that way to you, but is sure looks that way to everyone else. It might make you feel better for a little while, but in the end you just making yourself look even more devalued.

Girl #2: Well, I think you need to make that no-good cheater pay and I have several ideas about how to do that Girl #1: He is the third guy who has cheated on me. It is always painful when marriages or dating relationships come apart and usually far more painful for one person than the other. It’s not just a matter of your boyfriend saying that he doesn’t want to be with you anymore; cheating is major disrespect. How do you get past the pain and get on to the next part of your life?

Don’t lower yourself by retaliating, but say to yourself, ” I’m too good for that”.

Some people try to retaliate by doing something to hurt themselves.

That doesn’t make much sense, but it still happens.

Girls have been known to date guys they do not like at all in order to get back at the guy they love.

Suicide is the ultimate example of people trying to strike back at others by hurting themselves. Also, don’t just jump into a relationship the minute you’re single.When they find me, she says to herself, then he’ll be sorry. Moving on takes time and drowning your sadness out by forcing yourself into a relationship might not be the best idea… Even try staying single for a few months to figure out what you want, who you don’t want, and keep an open mind about relationships and people.No matter how you try to cover it up, people who are cheated on almost always feel they have been disrespected, devalued, or cheapened in other people’s eyes.It is lot like that sickening feeling you get when someone makes some terribly nasty comment about you.Feeling a big hole inside that is screaming to be filled, the temptation is to quickly fill that void with another boyfriend.However, finding another boyfriend ASAP (as soon as possible) may not be the best way to find a guy AGAP (as good as possible).You might wind up in another cheating relationship.Dawn wrote: If you want to move on to the next boyfriend and you don’t want the same type of guy…#1 don’t do or look in the same place u met the 1st BF.I believe deeply that before another relationship is established you must 1st be mentally, emotionally and spiritually ready because a new boyfriend no matter how great can’t make u achieve that level of completeness necessary to handle the challenges of a relationship!When people cheat, it is their decision and their responsibility.However, the ones cheated upon are often left wondering what they did wrong.

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