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I’m a 33 year old, single father with primary care of a 14 month old daughter. Make no mistake about it: being busy is the greatest and most believable excuse for being single that you can find.

And when I do, the results aren’t the type I’m looking for anyway. Which is why I suggested a shuffling of your priorities.

If you said yes to any of the above, this article is gonna be one great kick in the ass for you.

This is not to say that you should be any less devoted a father.

But you owe it to yourself, your daughter, and your sanity to lead a life that does not eat up all of your free time. Despite the fact that love is more important than anything, we maintain the mindset that work comes first.

I see this frequently with my hardworking clients, who put in 12 hours a day at the office, maybe fit in a workout and a meal after work, and start all over again the next day. One smart, successful client of mine always stressed about how busy she was and how this made her search for love particularly taxing.

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She had little free time and certainly didn’t want to spend it going out with strangers she’d probably never see again.

She just wanted to cut to the chase and find a guy.

One day, she informed me that she met an impressive man online, who claimed to be too busy to make a date with her. Yet she was unable to see that in 99% of the circumstances, SHE was the one who was too busy for the men who were courting her.

It was fine when she was too busy for others, but when men were too busy they become “workaholics” or “aloof” or “emotionally unavailable.” It didn’t occur to her that she was all of the above as well. Right should materialize from thin air and come pre-ordered for chemistry, compatibility, values, goals, and humor. IF YOU THINK IT DOES, YOU’RE GOING TO BE WAITING A REALLY, REALLY LONG TIME.

If you’re a busy person, this should be hitting pretty close to home right now. Finding a life partner takes a LOT of trial and error.

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